Things society considers immature:
Comic books
Video games
Candy
Play
Toys
Science Fiction
Liberalism
Things society considers mature:
Marriage
Career
Insurance
Conservatism
Loans
Home ownership
Sex
Violence
Things I consider immature:
Religious dependence
Shopping
News media
Capitalism
Conservatism
Bigotry
Sex
Violence
TV
Film
Celebrity worship
Breast obsession
Things I consider mature:
Philosophy
Compassion
Responsibility
Humility
Self-sacrifice
Open-mindedness
Why does sex have to be immature? Why can't it be lovemaking?
ReplyDeleteYou are saying that as if it is a value judgment.
ReplyDeleteI just don't think there is anything "mature" about it.
Lovemaking is fucking for those who don't know how.
Okay, valid point. I am making it into a judgement call.
ReplyDeleteBut explain to me how lovemaking is fucking for those who don't know how?
I mean, I love a good fuck, don't get me wrong, but I think there can be a big difference. Lovemaking to me would imply something slower and more attentive, whereas fucking is faster, harder, and more primal. Both fun, but different forms.
I mean the people who use "lovemaking" as a euphemism are usually too repressed to do it well.
ReplyDeleteI think "making love" is one of those phrases that is so vague that you can't really say what it is. When I use it (on those rare occasions), it has nothing to do with sex. It means to ferment the emotions of love... generally (but not necessarily) through touch and intimacy.
Which is what I was attempting to convey... I think. Which to me is a more mature form of fucking, sex or no sex.
ReplyDeleteBut again the issue of not properly defining my terms! Double damn! And god, repression. Ain't that a danger. Definitely need to find an outlet for that... ;)